RAO Legal Group, LLC
May 27TH, 2024
8 tips on how to let your family know about who you really want as your childrens’ guardian
Time and again we have seen families hesitate (for years, may we add!) to even start the estate planning process because they are paralyzed by the thought of having to break the news to a family member that he or she is not going to be their first choice of a fiduciary (i.e. a guardian, trustee, agent under a power of attorney etc.).
However, setting up your estate plan and selecting the right people for various roles are critical not only to get your estate affairs organized but to ensure that your loved ones are taken care of when you are gone.
Don’t let ‘paralysis by analysis’ get the better of you– use this guide to approach these important discussions with kindness, concern, and a sprinkle of humor.
Discussing your estate plan with difficult family members can feel daunting, but with patience, empathy, and a dash of humor, you can navigate the conversation effectively. By approaching it with kindness and understanding, you can ensure your wishes are clearly communicated and respected, keeping the family harmony intact—even if it means cracking a joke or two along the way.
