This article explains exactly what a letter of wishes is, why you need one, what to include, and how to write one that truly reflects your intentions.
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How & Why To Write a Letter of Wishes: UK Guide

WUHLD Limited
November 4th, 2025

Even if you have a comprehensive will, a letter of wishes serves important purposes that your will simply cannot address.

While 53% of UK adults now have a will, many don’t realize a will can’t capture every personal preference. According to MetLife UK research, 51% of the recently bereaved were unaware of the deceased’s funeral wishes, and only 44% of adults have discussed their funeral preferences with family.

It’s important to understand that a letter of wishes is separate from but complementary to a will.

A letter of wishes is a non-legally binding document that accompanies your will, providing guidance to your executors and trustees on how you’d like your estate managed after your death. Your will contains legally binding instructions that must be followed. Your letter of wishes provides personal guidance and preferences that should be considered and respected, but aren’t legally enforceable.

This article explains exactly what a letter of wishes is, why you need one, what to include, and how to write one that truly reflects your intentions.