We Parent | Parenting Advice
By Patrick Hicks, November 21ST, 2020
Life is unpredictable, and sometimes something we never thought would happen to us happens all of a sudden.
If you are a godparent, uncle or aunt, or close friend, you may be listed as someone who will become the legal guardian of a dependent if their previous parent or guardian passes away, or else otherwise becomes unable to take care of them.
In addition to the emotional grief, turmoil and strain caused by a loved one’s sudden passing, there are many logistical issues to settle as well. And, especially if you’ve unexpectedly taken over legal guardianship of a minor or disabled person, you may be scrambling to figure out what your next steps should be.
Let’s carefully move through a few steps you should take immediately if you find yourself unexpectedly becoming a legal guardian.
These are difficult and emotionally taxing questions — not to mention logistical difficulties — but they must be answered if you find yourself the unexpected guardian of a minor or disabled person. Taking guardianship is no small task, and may be one of the most important undertakings of your life. It requires emotional strength and clear-headed logistical considerations, and shouldn’t be taken lightly. That said, it’s also an opportunity to step it up and take care of someone who is likely experiencing a lot of sadness and confusion, which can be deeply rewarding and important work as well.
Patrick Hicks, Head of Legal, Trust & Will
